{"id":7092,"date":"2022-06-04T17:34:35","date_gmt":"2022-06-04T17:34:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kite47.com\/?p=7092"},"modified":"2022-06-04T17:54:06","modified_gmt":"2022-06-04T17:54:06","slug":"12-they-follow-and-talk-to-their-ex-partners-on-17","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/2022\/06\/04\/12-they-follow-and-talk-to-their-ex-partners-on-17\/","title":{"rendered":"12. They Follow and Talk to Their Ex-Partners on Instagram"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><title>12. They Follow and Talk to Their Ex-Partners on Instagram<\/title><\/p>\n<p>You might not know it, but excessive infatuation and infidelity can manifest in a simple comment or liking a post.<\/p>\n<p>If your partner is spending a lot of time talking about, following, posting, or commenting on ex-partners&#8217; social media feeds, you might have a problem.<\/p>\n<p>As reported in Psychology Today, studies have shown that \u201cpeople were more likely to stay in touch with exes they still had feelings for.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThose who stayed in touch with an ex tend to be less committed to their current partner than those who did not.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s generally not a good sign if they&#8217;re in constant communication with their ex. Who knows what that could lead to.<\/p>\n<p>If this is something you&#8217;ve known about and accepted about them prior to the relationship, you will need to talk to your partner about how this has become a problem and why after all this time.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>If this is a new behavior, it&#8217;s better to talk to your partner sooner rather than later, so that you don&#8217;t continue to worry about what it means.<\/p>\n<p>Boundaries need to be set by you \u2013 and your partner \u2013 for what micro-cheating looks like and you both need to take responsibility for your actions.<\/p>\n<h2>13. Your Partner is Actively Adding New Attractive Friends<\/h2>\n<p>Your partner could be intending on texting, calling, and flirting with the new friends at the expense of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>We can all agree that there is something fishy about someone already in a relationship constantly interacting with people of the opposite sex.<\/p>\n<h2>14. Your Partner is Constantly on the Phone<\/h2>\n<p>If your partner used to leave their phone carelessly at your disposal before and now they always have it on them, there is something wrong, and you know it.<\/p>\n<p>Psychologist Douglas Weiss, Ph.D. tells Bustle that a sign of cheating to watch for is \u201cif their cell phone has a code on it or they take their cell phone to the bathroom, even at home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If the partner is going even to the strangest places with the phone, they most likely don&#8217;t want you laying hands on the phone.<\/p>\n<p>If they never used to carry their phones and chargers everywhere, automatically there could be someone they want to communicate with all the time.<\/p>\n<h2>15. Your Partner Has Two or More Phones<\/h2>\n<p>But if you know for a fact that your partner doesn&#8217;t really have a need for two phones, then you need to ask yourself some hard questions.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you want to know how to catch an Instagram cheater, you have to learn how to outsmart them.<\/p>\n<p>When you find the phone, and you suspected all along that the partner was cheating, you may find incriminating evidence to raise a concern.<\/p>\n<h2>16. Their Friends Are Being Weird<\/h2>\n<p>If you can&#8217;t seem to find any evidence of cheating but you are certain something is wrong, message his or her friends on Instagram and see how they respond.<\/p>\n<p>If they barely interact with you, then something&#8217;s wrong. <a href=\"https:\/\/datingreviewer.net\/cs\/pripojeni\/\">http:\/\/www.datingreviewer.net\/cs\/pripojeni\/<\/a> It&#8217;s a surefire way to tell if your partner is cheating.<\/p>\n<p>Paul Coleman, PsyD, says that \u201cthere is a good chance your partner&#8217;s friends may know what&#8217;s really going on before you do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Friends almost always know what is going on, and if you are desperate to get the right information before you confront your partner, friends are where it&#8217;s at.<\/p>\n<h2>17. Your Partner is Only Following the Opposite Sex<\/h2>\n<p>You might dismiss it as your partner just being friendly and social. However, intense scrutiny will help you will unlock a serial cheater&#8217;s pandora&#8217;s box.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>12. They Follow and Talk to Their Ex-Partners on Instagram You might not know it, but excessive infatuation and infidelity can manifest in a simple comment or liking a post. If your partner is spending a lot of time talking about, following, posting, or commenting on ex-partners&#8217; social media feeds, you might have a problem.<a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/2022\/06\/04\/12-they-follow-and-talk-to-their-ex-partners-on-17\/\"> [&hellip;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1782],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7092"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7092"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7092\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7093,"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7092\/revisions\/7093"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7092"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7092"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kite47.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7092"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}